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Today I’m 40

I used to think 40 was old, but now that I’m officially 40 I can say it isn’t old. We had a blast of a party with all of my family at the beach over the weekend and we’re all married (last brother is engaged and marries this summer) and breeding great little people who love to laugh as much as we do.

We told stories about our formative years, my rebellious years, former boyfriends, car trouble and awkward clutzy moments that have become family folklore.

I made a list of some milestones today: 17 years sober; 14 years married; 9 years a mother to Izzy; 3 years a mother to Mack; 2 years UM was published; almost 2 years from Katrina.

In Anna Quindlen’s recent Newsweek column she said that her children have done more than anything else to “excavate my humanity” and it is so true. My children touch my soul like nothing else and it truly has given me a glimpse of God’s unselfish love for us. A simple enjoyment in our very existence.

We drove home from the beach late on Monday night and I squished myself between Izzy and Mack’s carseat in the back. Chris played songs from the 80s that we still know all too well. What is more fun than singing “Oh Mickey you’re so fine, you’re so fine you blow my mind! Hey Mickey, Hey Mickey!” at the top of your lungs? Chris laughs because he is the only one that can sing on key. It was a great birthday.

Robert Webber (1933-2007)

From CB:

I recently learned that a wonderful scholar and churchman died last week, Dr. Robert Webber. I got to know Dr. Webber briefly during my time at Wheaton College. He was known affectionately as “Book of the Month Club Bob” because he seemed to be writing one book a month. He wrote the very popular Evangelicals on the Canterbury Trail: Why Evangelicals Are Attracted to the Liturgical Church and our conversations centered upon the struggle between a call to ministry and to academia. His words were always warm, encouraging, and brought me great strength in a difficult time. I never knew him well, but I will always thank God for him.

“May light perpetual shine upon him.”

A more complete obituary is at
Wheaton College:

Memorial services planned for Dr. Robert E. Webber

After an eight month battle with pancreatic cancer, Professor Emeritus Dr. Robert E. Webber (73) went to be with the Lord Friday, April 27, 2007. Dr. Webber, known as Bob, died at his home in Sawyer, Michigan, in the arms of his wife and faithful companion, Joanne.

Dr. Webber spent 32 years as Professor of Theology at Wheaton College, before moving on to Northern Seminary. He authored more than 40 books on worship and the Church, as well as contributing to magazines, journals, newspapers and radio shows.

Bob is being cremated, and his family will inter his ashes in a private ceremony.

Before his death, Bob carefully planned his memorial services, one for each of his earthly homes. The first will be a private memorial for the Webber family, Bob’s caregivers, the Bethany Beach community, and invited friends in Michigan.

The second service will be 7 p.m., Wednesday, May 16 at Christ Church in Oak Brook, Illinois. The Wheaton College family, Northern Seminary family, and friends in the area are invited to attend.

The final service will be at Grace Episcopal Church in Orange Park, Florida, the site of the Robert E. Webber Institute for Worship Studies. The memorial begins at 7 p.m., Friday, June 15.

All three services will include the same scriptures, songs and communion if possible, and will follow the ancient-future format Bob made his life’s work.

In lieu of flowers, donations be made to:
The Robert E. Webber Institute for Worship Studies
Endowment Fund
151 Kingsley Highway
Orange Park, Florida 32073

or

The Robert E. Webber Center for Ancient Evangelical Future
Northern Seminary
660 East Butterfield Road
Lombard, Illinois 60148

“Christ is risen, He is risen indeed. Hallelujah.”

One.org

You may have seen One on American Idol Gives Back, Bono even made an appearance.

One.org is a grassroots lobbying organization where you can sign letters and email them to your representatives to support legislation that supports debt relief and various poverty issue in this country and abroad. I have been surprised by how reponsive the House and Senate offices have been, and how accessible their staff is to understanding the various issues. I think sometimes we don’t realize how important our voices, and votes, actually are.

Blue-White is Maroon & Orange This Year

This weekend is the annual Blue-White football scrimmage here at PSU. But there is an honorable movement among Penn State students on Facebook. They are calling for Penn State fans to wear Maroon and Orange in memory of those slain at VaTech. So if you will be here this weekend let’s make it a Hokie day.

Demigodness Bono

If ever someone deserved this honor he does. And their music is good too.

U2’s Bono awarded British knighthood on Yahoo! News

Irish rock star and global humanitarian Bono became a knight of the British empire Thursday - and joked that his youngest son thought he was about to become a Jedi instead. Bono, 46, was named a Knight Commander of the Most Excellent Order of the British Empire in an informal, laugh-filled ceremony in the Dublin home of British Ambassador David Reddaway.

“You have permission to call me anything you want - except sir, all right? Lord of lords, your demigodness, that’ll do,” he told reporters afterward.

“A Long Way Gone: Memoirs of a Boy Soldier”

I was too cheap to buy it the past three times I’ve been in Starbucks this week. I normally spend $1.86 (including tax) for my Grande Dark Roast with 2 Sweet-n-Lows and Cream.

So, $22 for a book seemed steep, even though I almost made it through the whole first chapter standing in line the other day.

Luckily my neighbor did buy it and lent it to me today and I can’t put it down. But I keep flipping to the back cover and looking at Ishmael Beah’s star-quality smile and think of the great stuff he must be made of. I guess that we’re all made of it if we give ourselves the chance at true redemption.

The One Campaign

Bono’s One campaign “to eradicate poverty” is so well organized and making strides through grassroots lobbying. If you are interested in seeing the federal budget for poverty issues expanded, sign up at one.org.

I just signed up to meet face to face with our Congressional reps who will be back in their districts in April. And… I have serious commitment issues. I took me about 5 minutes to push “Submit” - which has serious double meaning for me today!

Check it out here.

“Those People” in New Orleans

The Episcopal Diocese of Louisiana gathered for their annual convention last weekend. I have attached Bishop Jenkins’ sermon which speaks candidly about the identity crisis of many in New Orleans since the storm. And, the renewed mission that has come out of tragedy.

One of the sections that stood out to me was Bishop Jenkins’ explanation as to why he is committed to staying in the Episcopal Church:

I call upon you and this Diocese to display toughness (not meanness, insensitivity or stubbornness) and a persistence that speaks of our true nature as partakers of the divine nature. I am weary of the tactic of who is the most injured. It reminds me of a game show my mother used to watch on our black and white television set. It was called “Queen for a Day.” Whoever told the most heart-wrenching story won a wringer washing machine. Do you remember it? I would love to have the applause-o-meter (I remember watching that meter ascend and descend as the studio audience applauded the saddest sob story) that determined the winner! What is the place of emotional sensitivity in our discernment of God’s will? A Thomist will note that the heart, as the seat of emotion, is not to be trusted. A Jesuit would counsel that private perception needs be tested in community. Even we test an individual’s perception of vocation in the local and diocesan community.

(Via The Bishop’s Blog)

Oh Snow!

PICT5064.JPGGuest Blog Entry. From my wonderful husband (who is writing this introduction as well):
Well the snow continues to fall and we are loving it! Schools, including PSU are closed, and it is Valentine’s Day! We had a lovely lunch of roast lamb shank, sparkling red grape juice, and a lovely desert. Even Elizabeth’s roses arrived via FedEx!

The snow is too deep for sledding now and is quite heavy (although only about 12-14″) because there is a layer of sleet that fell last night. The driveway has been shoveled to the half-way mark twice now (and an inch has accumulated on that portion just in the last hour while having lunch!). It is hard work but I console myself that it is far more fun and less anxiety inducing than boarding windows and sandbagging doors.

So if you are in the snow, stay warm and stay safe! Enjoy it with folks you love and be sure to make a snow angel, at least once this year! (And if you can’t manager that, try a snow angle.)

Something to think about

Thank you Melissa, for forwarding this to me today. I have been thinking a lot about the neat women who filled the stadium on Sunday afternoon. The Penn St. Lady Lions basketball team hosted a “Think Pink” game and everyone was dressed in pink. During half time the court was filled with breast cancer survivors and their families. It was inspiring and I haven’t stopped thinking about them.

Attitude

There once was a woman who woke up one morning,
looked in  the mirror,
and  noticed she had only three hairs on her head.
Well,”  she said, “I think I’ll braid my hair today?”

So she  did and she had a wonderful day.

The next  day she woke up,looked in  the mirror
and saw  that she had only two hairs on her head.
“H-M-M,”  she said,
“I think I’ll part my hair down the middle today?”

So she  did and she had a grand day.

The next  day she woke up,looked in  the mirror and noticed that she had only one hair on her head. “Well,”  she said, “today  I’m going to wear my hair in a pony tail.”

So she  did and she had a fun, fun day.

The next  day she woke up, looked in  the mirror and noticed that there wasn’t a single hair on her head.
“YEA!”  she exclaimed,
“I  don’t have to fix my hair today!”

Attitude  is everything.Be kinder  than necessary,for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of  battle.

Live  simply,
Love generously,
Care  deeply,
Speak  kindly…….

Leave the  rest to God.