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Facebook: Where our Personal History Comes Alive

I had not spoken to or seen John since our 1985 graduation from Robinson High School in Fairfax, Virginia. In the past couple months many of us have reconnected through Facebook and have enjoyed seeing photos of kids and catching up on news from many of the 900+ classmates from that year.

Recently a mutual friend posted John’s link to a daily journal of his battle with brain cancer. He was fighting hard, in good Navy SEAL spirit. Hundreds of friends wrote him words of encouragement everyday and his wife tapped away at the computer in the dead of night when all was quiet to update his status. John lost his battle on January 18. His obituary ran today in the Virginia Pilot linked here .

In our day of information saturation it is a wonder that 150 million plus people are toiling away on their scanners to upload fading shots of life from the 80’s and a few, carefully selected, college photos from the 90’s. Our kids short histories and our own recent histories have mostly been completely digitized in crisp color so it is our photos that need the scanners.

The photos are at once familiar and yet from another time. The church Youth Group photos on retreat in the Virginia mountains bring the biggest smile to my face. Their names and families are still familiar to me although I have not seen most of them in more than 20 years. But, by reconnecting we somehow rediscover a piece of our history and a piece of ourselves.

In Facebook the Status Updates are just like the newsbites of celebrities that run on countless websites and magazines. But, in Facebook you actually know the people. Today, Ann is training for her first 1/2 marathon; Tammy is crossing the Causeway again; Woodson is commuting to Staines in the Raines; and several friends watched the premiere of “Lost” last night. Many people laugh at themselves for spending so much time in the wee hours of the night on Facebook.

John’s fight for life inspired and touched so many. I’m glad I got to “meet” him again and learn about the extra-ordinary person he had become. Facebook has perhaps enabled us to see our sometimes compartmentalized lives with a wider lens.

Statement from World Vision Jerusalem

This is a press statement from Charles Clayton, the director of World Vision Jerusalem on the need for a cease fire and the worsening humanitarian crisis in Gaza. Charles was the executive director of World Vision UK when I served as Press Officer there in 1994-97. He continues to do great work on behalf of the m0st vulnerable.

For immediate release

14 January

More than 200 lives lost since UN call for ceasefire aid agencies say
Three hour lull in fighting will not redress the full-blown humanitarian crisis - only an immediate ceasefire will help

A group of leading international aid agencies today said that more than 200 lives have been lost since the UN passed its binding resolution stipulating an immediate ceasefire in Gaza and Israel which was dismissed by the conflicting parties.

The agencies called on both parties to end the killings and heed Ban Ki Moon’s appeal – as he arrives in Israel and the Occupied Palestinian Territory - for an immediate ceasefire that will end the civilian suffering and endangerment and allow local and international aid agencies to provide desperately needed relief safely and without impediment. The international community must throw its full weight behind Ban Ki Moon’s efforts and ensure that the UN resolution is promptly enforced.

Since the UN Security Council called for a ceasefire on 8th January there have been:

More than 200 people killed
More than 1,300 people injured
Three hospitals hit by the bombing

“Putting an end to violence and civilian casualties is not a option, it is an obligation”, says Charles Clayton, Nation Director for World Vision Jerusalem.  “We cannot stress enough that the current situation in the Gaza Strip needs to be addressed without further delay. Too many people have died already.”

The agencies – Save the Children, Oxfam International, World Vision Jerusalem, Christian Aid, CARE International – added that the three-hour ‘lull’ in the fighting, which is now only restricted to Gaza City, detracts attention away from the immediate need to reach a durable ceasefire that would allow aid agencies to carry out much needed humanitarian work throughout the Gaza Strip, including reaching communities that have been completely cut off by the conflict. The slim window of time each day is not nearly enough to address the dire humanitarian situation on the ground. Moreover, some fighting usually continues during the ‘lulls’ so humanitarian workers and the civilian population risk their lives moving around the Gaza Strip.

“With shelters overflowing, food shortages, inadequate facilities and the general sense of panic and abandonment felt, we must be allowed to sufficiently assist the needy population of the Gaza Strip at once”, says David Bourns, Country Director for Save the Children.

Last week, CARE International staff were forced to flee a food distribution site as heavy bombing began to fall in the area. Distributions of food take at least five hours per delivery, and a daily delivery of medical supplies took 11 hours last week – far longer than the three-hour lull. Even with an increase in the number of workers packing and dispatching, the needs of clinics and hospitals can’t be met in the short time frame.

World Vision has begun a substantial relief operation to bring food and blankets to 50,000 people who are in extreme need. This whole process will be jeopardized unless the organization is given safe and unfettered access into Gaza. The sequence of delivering aid from border to warehouse and from warehouse to the population is currently a big gamble in lives and material.

Despite the danger to staff and the children and families they are trying to reach, Save the Children has distributed food rations to 20,000 people — more than half of them children — since Sunday, January 4. Food distribution involves large quantities of supplies and vehicles and requires hours to complete efficiently. Reaching vulnerable people is complicated by the fact that families are often fearful to venture out to distribution sites. Save the Children has also warned that the number of supply trucks entering Gaza is entirely insufficient given the extraordinary need created by the conflict.

Oxfam International said that it is impossible to effectively circulate internally within Gaza Strip during the 3-hour lull. Oxfam’s seven staff members in Gaza, a majority of who have themselves been displaced due to the violence, are also struggling to deliver urgently-needed food to thousands of civilians in such a tight space of time. Oxfam’s local health partners are providing emergency medical care to victims of the conflict, under extraordinarily difficult circumstances with the Palestinian health system on the brink of collapse.

“On the best days, the lulls are barely long enough to distribute a minimum of aid to the people who need it. In most cases, it’s simply not sufficient time to provide adequate assistance for such a devastated and desperate civilian population. It’s akin to putting a band-aid on a bullet wound when surgery and life support is what is needed,” said John Prideaux-Brune, Country Director for Oxfam Great-Britain.

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For more information please contact:
Michael Robin Bailey (Oxfam International): +972 (0) 223 30 14
David Bourns (Save the Children): +972 (0) 54 313 4280
Allyn Dhynes (World Vision Jerusalem): +972 (0) 54 749 509
Hanan Elmasu (Christian Aid): +44 (0) 793 2022715
Martha Myers (CARE International): +972 (0) 54 779 7736

New Orleans work continues

This is a recent article in the Atlanta Journal Constitution

Volunteering after Katrina changed their lives forever

Helping restore and rebuild after 2005 hurricane was transformational event

The Atlanta Journal-Constitution

Sunday, January 04, 2009

For almost a year, Jonathan Kidwell waited to volunteer in New Orleans.

He had watched TV reports as Hurricane Katrina pummeled the city during his first days on the job as a graduate assistant at Ohio State University in 2005. He had landed a scholarship in a prestigious two-year master’s program in sports management.

Images of the disaster dogged him, but Kidwell stuck with his work and his classes for nine months. His opportunity arrived with summer break.

The relief trip to New Orleans transformed his life and led him to Atlanta, where he works for the Atlanta Community Tool Bank, a nonprofit that helps restore homes for the poor.

“There was no parting of the clouds and booming voice of God,” Kidwell, 26, said recently. “It was just the reaction that I had to that experience and how it affected me.”

Review of UM in The Anglican Digest

I am very exited to announce that The Anglican Digest has include my novel in their Transfiguration A.D. 2008 issue. The issue will be out soon, but in the meantime the review is here:

A novel set in 1990, this is the story of Episcopalian Katherine Tierney who spends a year working in a mission outpost in Burkina Faso.   The story might be predictable but Brady’s descriptions of the setting, the culture, and their impact on the characters is engrossing and, for those who have similar experience in their history, evocative of fond memories.  The spiritual issues with which the central character has to wrestle underscore the impact that time spent in mission can have on those who chose to invest their lives in that service.  In the opinion of this editor, Unlikely Missionary is worthwhile read. — JDB  ISBN: 1591136989, $15.95

This is a great encouragement. Thank you to Father John and TAD for recommending The Unlikely Missionary!

Sacrifice

I heard Maya Angelou interviewed this morning on NPR, which was fantastic. My husband took the kids to church so I could grade some papers and her interview was an unexpected spiritual moment.

She talked about finding what you love and being willing to sacrifice for it. What do you love? What are you willing to do anything for? Where do you spend your money, time and daydreams? This is what you love.

She also explained that she lives life as a Christian because it asks life to be lived. To love and find joy and work hard - it reminded me of the Benedictine principals that have found renewed popularity in the past few years. Work and play. And, be grateful.

Now, I’m distracted and can’t focus on grading papers! I wish I were with my family at church…

Win a copy of The Unlikely Missionary!

If you haven’t already been to The Dabbling Mum now is the time to check it out! Alyice Edrich offers practical writing tips from a variety of interesting contributors and lots of fun prizes to win. I recently won some fun prizes and sent Alyice my book to use as a prize this month. Just go here and ask a question, that’s it!

Audio Book - Prologue

I have made an audio version of the prologue to my novel The Unlikely Missionary available. At some future date I hope to provide the entire novel in audio form. There will be no charge, I just ask that you let others know about this site and the novel.

Subscribe via iTunesYou may either listen to the chapters from within each post, download from the link included in the post, or receive an automatic update by subscribing to the podcast via iTunes.

The first chapter available is the Prologue.

Enjoy!

 
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Starbucks-free Lent continues

My biggest mistake in this ridiculous Lenten process was telling my children. I can’t approach the drive-thru without loud reminders of my commitment! Ah, well.

Some days I drive by Starbucks and think that it was a wimpy exercise, of course I can stay away from Starbucks. Then, 10 days later I feel resentful that I’ve missed a ritual I enjoy and I pull into the drive-thru with gusto.

We’re nearing the end of Lent and I’m happy to say that I picked the right discipline. It has been a challenge to me, for the same reasons any spiritual discipline is a challenge. There is no one there to pat you on the back. But, somehow, someway, the daily discipline of prayer and journaling keeps other things on my mind besides me. It is at times exhausting and irritating. And, at times, I receive a nudge to pray for someone or phone someone that I could only know through prayer. Those moments keep me believing that there is value to soldier on.

Starbucks & Lent

I decided to give up going to Starbucks every afternoon after teaching, before picking up my son from school, for Lent. It’s a ritual that I enjoy and I find it nearly impossible to give it up!

Here in State College there is one drive thru Starbucks, the rest of them you actually have to get out of the warm car and walk inside. Since Lent, I have been getting out of the car and walking in under the auspices of purchasing Valentine’s Gifts, buying whole beans for the troops and other things that would be obnoxious from the drive thru.

Am I sensing Jesus’ sacrifice more keenly when I deny myself this daily treat? I don’t know! But my head is killing me from caffeine withdrawals.

Today, I passed by twice, but I could still smell it.

ERD announces arrival of 2008 Lenten devotional

If you are preparing to prepare for Good Friday, ECUSA is here to help. (No kidding, their material is usually very good.)

ERD announces arrival of 2008 Lenten devotional

Episcopal Relief and Development (ERD) has published its 2008 Lenten devotional booklet, titled “Seeking to Serve: A Lenten Exploration of the Millennium Development Goals.”

Also, Presiding Bishop Katharine Jefferts Schori has declared February 10, 2008 — the First Sunday in Lent — as Episcopal Relief and Development Sunday.

(Via Episcopal News Service.)